I can't help here, I still have the factory cast grates from 2001. For about 4 seasons, 1 by the original owner, then 4 years no use, then 3 by me, they were run with just AUF. Since then they have been run with high pressure AUF and AOF (air under fire and air over fire, both on high pressure). My grates are filled with ash and always have been. I run the HP air until the coals are burned up when I shut down.
My thoughts are that the sand you filled then with might have caused the problem, many have used 1/4" thick V up 2x2 angle iron successfully for years with ash filling them. Ash will insulate far better than sand. If in doubt use 2.5 x 2.5" angle at least 1/4" thick and fill that with ash, not sand. The round bar gave you no way to protect it. Also, have about 1/4" min.-3/8"max. space between the VVVV with just a weld between them about every 8-10" to maintain the space, or do like the cast ones, and make up units of 2 or 3, welded with the spaces and then set them in the arch so they together fill the space.
Dave Klish, I recently ordered a 2x6 wood fired evaporator from A&A Sheet Metal which I will be converting to oil fired
Now have solar, 2x6 finish pan, 5 bank 7x7 filter press, large water jacketed bottler, and tankless water heater.
Recently bought another Gingerich RO, this one was a 125, but a second membrane was added thus is a 250, like I had.
After running a 2x3, a 2x6, 3x8 tapping from 79 taps up to 1320 all woodfired, now I'm going to a 2x6 oil fired and a 200-425 taps.