Sounds like you definately want a continuous flow pan. With that style pan it will take several hours to get the pan "sweet" or to the point where you can draw off syrup. Once you get to that point you can draw off small amounts of syrup, and when you run out of sap you stop and leave the rest in the pan for the next boil. You won't have 1.5 gallons of finished syrup in the last chamber as you said but will have drawn off the syrup while you were boiling and have close to syrup remaining in the last chamber. Thats the best part of a continuous flow pan, you are making and drawing off syrup the whole time you boil once the pan is sweetened. As far as size, are you planning on expanding or adding more taps? If so you might want to look at a larger evaporator then a 2x3, but if you stay where you are it sounds like a 2x3 will work just fine with your RO.
Jake
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